As a person with social anxiety and who freaks the fuck out when someone talks to them- I actually used my mic today. Random joined my fireteam, had mic, I plugged in mine (my heart was pounding, palms sweating, you have no idea), and magic was made guys.
Dude was really cool, kept things polite, talked about games, what we liked about Destiny, what we didn’t like. I got tongue tied most of the time, but that was never brought up. Asked if I could friend request him, said sure! I made a friend. T___T